1. DO be honest. You're going to have to meet in person one day (or at least you hope to), so tell the truth early rather than having to face an awkward conversation later.
2. DON'T reveal too much about yourself until you become better acquainted. You want to meet online, not have an online relationship.
3. DON'T use your last name or give out your personal information until you've known the person for a while.
4. DO dial *67 before dialing their phone number. It will block your phone number and name from appearing on a recipient's Caller ID unit. You also can use your cell phone so your address can't be tracked.
5. DO get a separate email account that does not give away your real name - some email providers allow you to create multiple addresses or names for free.
6. DO post an up-to-date photo, and ask if their photo is recent. Many aren't.
7. DON'T spend too much time emailing before talking on the phone or meeting in person. Nothing can replace face-to-face chemistry. Better to find out if you have any before you get too involved.
8. DON'T jump too quickly into sexy talk; it may send the wrong message.
9. DO meet in a public place.
10. DO make every word count. Keep your descriptions light hearted, to the point, and add a little teaser.
11. DO expect a flood of emails. Longtime users will jump at the opportunity to meet someone new.
12. DON'T be ambiguous. Be clear about what you want, your goals and desires.
