The Top 10 Things to Know on a First Date
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What Men Look for on a First Date

  • Does she complain about men?
  • Is she open to new things?
  • Do I like her cloths and sense of style?
  • Can she speak intelligently about more than one thing (such as her job)?
  • Is she emotionally available or is she still talking to her ex a lot?
  • Can she maintain eye contact? Is she nervous?  Is there some energy between us or is it flat? (Nervous is better than flat)
  • Is she generous or is she confrontational?  Can she hold her own opinion without making me wrong?
  • Does she have a good sense of humor and a "fun" attitude?  Does she get my sense of humor?  Is she happy?
  • Do we have chemistry?  How does she respond when I put my hand on the side of her arm or in the small of her back?  Is she open and not afraid to show that she likes me?
  • Is she high maintenance?  Does she talk about nicer places than the one you are taking her to in a way that makes you think she would have rather gone there?  Does she pick the most expensive thing on the menu on a first date?