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January 2008

What Women Look for on a First Date

  • Does he carry himself with confidence?
  • Did he complain about every aspect of his life?
  • Does he appear trustworthy, dependable and honest?
  • Do we have good chemistry? Am I attracted to him?
  • Do I like his sense of humor? Does he have one? Did we have fun together?
  • Was he complimentary? Did he say something positive about the way I look?
  • Did he only have eyes for me? Or was he interested in other women in the room?
  • Is he a good communicator? Did he listen and appear to be interested in what I had to say?
  • Is he well groomed with good hygiene? Clothes clean and pressed?
  • Is he interesting? Did we engage easily in conversation or was it a struggle? Did he only talk about himself?
  • Is he intelligent? Does he seem interested in life? Is he the type of man who makes things happen?
  • Does he have good manners? Did he show me consideration and treat me with respect? Is he polite to others? Was he insulting about his exes?

The next time you are out on a first date remember what the opposite sex is attracted to. Have fun, smile and be confident in who you are. You’ll be more attractive and you’ll have more fun.

Get Your Flirt On!

The next time you are out and see someone you are interested in, don't be shy.  Strike up a conversation.  Not quite sure what to say?  If you are at a venue that has music, talk about the band.  If you are at a place with a nice atmosphere, talk about the ambiance or the decor of the bar or restaurant.  If you are not comfortable with either of those, talk about what a beautiful brisk day it is the next time you are picking up your morning coffee.  You'll be sure to strike up a conversation. 

Dress to Impress

Once you've agreed on a time and place for your date, it's time to figure out what to wear.  Though clothes can never be a substitute for self-confidence or a positive attitude, they can go a long way in making a good impression and give you a head start on landing a second date.

What is most important about dressing for a first date is wearing something that you feel comfortable in, both physically and mentally.  Just reach for your favorite confidence-boosting outfit that makes you feel like a million bucks.

If you don't have one, get on immediately.  Every single should have at least one outfit that they look and feel amazing in.  You should be able to put it on at any time and know that you look great and feel confident and sexy in the clothes.  Pick out something classic that you can wear to any type of date.  You want an outfit that can be dressed down for a more casual date, or dressed up for a more formal date.